Question:
Dear Jana, I've been sort of seeing this guy named Nick for the last several months. I live on the east coast and he lives on the west coast. We both travel quite a bit for our jobs and see each other whenever we are in each other's town. In the meantime, we keep in touch with flirty e-mails and from time to time, a phone call. I am really starting to fall for him. However, he runs "hot and cold." Sometimes, it feels like he's interested and other times, he'll disappear for a couple of weeks when I don't hear anything from him. Can you tell me what's going on with him? - Confused in Boston
Answer:
Medium Jana Hollingsworth responds:
Dear Confused - According to my Guides, Nick is NOT the one for you. He's not interested in making any kind of commitment at this point in time. He's enjoying his life and he's very social. He is definitely a BIG flirt! I wouldn't really call this a "relationship." It's more of a flirtation - at least on his part. I know it's hard to hear that he's not the one for you as you are starting to develop feelings for him. My advice to you is to either enjoy the situation for what it is and let it play out on its own or you can end it now and save yourself a lot of frustration and heartache. Nick is having fun with you but doesn't take this relationship seriously. The Guides feel like he is out there dating and you should be doing the same. If you can handle the "cat and mouse" game with him, then fine. However, if you are looking for a more serious relationship, I would bow out gracefully and end it now. There is definitely a better match for you out there and I feel like he could be coming into the picture by the end of this year.
Stay strong and don't let him string you along!
Best of luck!
- Jana
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